How Do You Like Your Eggs Cooked?- Same As My Partners.

Insignificant Importance
1 min readAug 3, 2021

I wanted a good entrance into a topic of sex regularity in a couple.

I liked it with my first long-term boyfriend 2–3 times a week.

I liked it with my next one — 1–2 times a week.

I liked it with my next one 1–2 times a day or 5–8 times a day if we have not seen each other for a week. This is a nice shock for me, I was not expecting it from myself.

What does it tell you, my dear reader? Exactly, whatever the partner liked, I got used to it and our rhythms synced. Sadly, I never got to know what my type actually is. It’s hard to see a pattern during short-term dating, as conditions in this experiment always change.

I believe my rhythm is in 3rd case, based on a theory of constraints, but the opposite. I mean production theory, not management.

Let’s recheck it: another approach for 3 cases is with setting I was most comfortable and satisfied sexually. Same answer: 3rd case.

Let’s put this result to verification: would I like to be someone who wants more sex or less sex? More. Then is not this experiment fraud, because the result equals my most preferred case? No. Because I still don’t believe this result is final. It is so up to date. I’m yet curious to open this pandora box. The result per day can shrink or expand.

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Insignificant Importance

A mix of my real sexual stories and relationships dynamics with a pinch of analysis. All men read stories about themselves here. Manager in tech.